You are ok with taking this job even if it is not your dream job.
You start where you are, you accept that it is not perfect, you learn what you have to learn, you make money.
Then you get experience and opportunities. Maybe you get a better position in the same company, or more responsibilities. Maybe you get an offer from another, better job.
You stay positive. You work. You grow. And things get better.
So why don’t you do the same with your dating life?
You cannot expect the perfect partner to appear in your life right away.
Maybe the perfect partner is not perfect.
You should try to go for the not-perfect one and build something with that person. Become better together.
Lose that shopping list of millions of things you want in a person, and keep your heart open.