“ I’ll be happy when -insert goal here- ”
…is a very common and very destructive INFP thought.
Idealism makes you desire perfection. It leaves you never fully satisfied because there is always something that could be better.
Learn to appreciate where you are now and what you’ve got.
It’s ok to have goals, it makes you grow and become always better. But you have to enjoy the ride while you reach the goal. Enjoy life in between. Appreciate the moment.